should i leave my boyfriend and go back home to someone else 2000 miles away — yes (+68)

pros

  • unfair to string him along (+9)
  • hes boring (+7)
  • Fallen out of love (+4)
  • You could be happier with the other guy (+4)
  • Exciting (+3)
  • You could have a whole new life with this other guy (+3)
  • I don't love my boyfriend (+2)
  • Fresh start (+1)
  • he calls me mean names (+1)
  • he steals my yummy food (+1)
  • Build a new relationship (+0)
  • I am homesick and want to be with the people I love (+0)
  • New experience (+0)
  • If you go back home you at least explore the situation rather than being left with a lingering feeling of what if (+0)
  • Leaving a realtionship that seems to be not fafilling. (+0)
  • following your heart (+0)
  • care about other more than boyfriend (+0)
  • if i'm even thinking about this, he's not much of a boyfriend (+0)
  • If you are having feelings of leaving it would feel good to go with your gut (-1)
  • that's a real nice guy even though he's so far away (-1)
  • You would be following your heart (-1)
  • Stop abusive relationship (-3)
  • I have no future here (-3)
  • Knowing whether or not the person 2000 miles away is right for you. (-3)
  • Closer to home (-4)
  • Get to go back home. (-4)
  • the distance could actually be good for our relationship (in some ways) (-4)
  • If you go back home at least it is back home and if it doesn't work you have support (-6)
  • My family will accept my new decision (-7)
  • Grown apart (-7)

cons

  • risky (-5)
  • Could be going into the arms of someone not right for you. (-2)
  • I don't want to abandon the life I've built here (-1)
  • I don't want to repeat a past failure (-1)
  • might have to leave a job/friends (-1)
  • It will break my heart (+0)
  • don't know what the future holds (+0)
  • Live your life for yourself. (+0)
  • Could be leaving a great realtionship. (+0)
  • i hate long distance (+0)
  • It could go horribly wrong (+0)
  • The person back home has an established life there, although this is home you will still be coming into a situation where the other person has the upper hand (+1)
  • Could be leaving an area that you personaly enjoy. (+1)
  • long distance romances rarely work out (+1)
  • won't be able to "keep an eye" on him (if he cheats on you) (+1)
  • I will have to bounce back if the new relationship doesn't work out (+2)
  • Closer to family (+2)
  • Decisions based on other people and not yourself usually do not work out well (+2)
  • There is nothing for me back home except a failed relationship (+3)
  • If you uproot your life you may feel resentment for this person if things are not going your way (+3)
  • uprooting your life (+3)
  • might not work out (+4)
  • It could not work out (+4)
  • He could not want to be with you (+5)
  • boyfriend is familiar (+7)
  • i love him (+7)
  • absolutely too far, he's practically in another country. (+8)
  • the new relationship may not work out (+9)
  • Fresh start (+9)
  • hes my best friend (+11)

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