should i try to win him back — yes (+4)

pros

  • potential for happy relationship (+13)
  • date him again (+7)
  • sense of achievement (+7)
  • you will regret not doing it (+6)
  • Guys don't always know as soon as girls. Sometimes they need to see how much you love him to realize how lucky he is to have you. (+6)
  • go may get him back (+5)
  • he has your stuff (+5)
  • you might have a stronger relationship (+5)
  • If you love him, you should fight for him. Never give up something you want easily. It's always worth the fight. Even if you lose you will never have to regret that you didn't try or wonder "what if" if only you had been brave enough to fight. (+4)
  • maybe he just needs to know that you care (+3)
  • he's worth it (+2)
  • You could learn somethin about yourself (+2)
  • save relationship (+2)
  • love (+2)
  • might be a good guy (+1)
  • He could say yes (+0)
  • He could learn to appreciate you more (+0)
  • you would have closure if turned down (+0)
  • might be fun (-1)
  • he's a nice guy (-1)
  • he may be the one (-1)
  • it might be successful (-2)
  • you won't be lonely (-2)
  • you would eliminate regrets (-2)
  • maybe you're both waiting for the other person to make the first move (-3)
  • it would be easier (-3)
  • relationship issues addressed (-3)
  • no regrets from trying (-4)
  • he may support you financially (-6)
  • you will have love (-6)
  • the reason for not being with him may be false (-7)
  • Who says guys are the only ones who can make grand romantic gestures? Show those movie guys that girls can wow just as well. The right spectacle may make him see the error of leaving. (-7)
  • you have history together (-7)
  • feel happy (-7)
  • he may come back (-8)
  • it is easier than finding someone new (-11)

cons

  • there could be someone better out there (-7)
  • might not be a good guy (-6)
  • another breakup (-6)
  • he is mean to you (-5)
  • might make things worse (-5)
  • might not work (-4)
  • If he let you go, he's a bozo. Do you really want to data a bozo? (-4)
  • he lives far away (-3)
  • he won't change (-3)
  • He could say no (-2)
  • You could embarrass yourself (-2)
  • He could spread rumors that you're clingy (-2)
  • could impede on other relationships (-2)
  • might lead to unhappy relationship (-1)
  • you may wish later you'd tried (-1)
  • rejection (-1)
  • it could be embarrassing (+0)
  • he found a better girl (+0)
  • hurt feelings (+0)
  • might take a lot of time (+1)
  • you might be rejected (+1)
  • he may resent it (+1)
  • he may not love you (+1)
  • maybe he's really happy without you (+2)
  • Even if you succeed, you will always question his love because he didn't know enough to stay on his own. (+2)
  • If you can't, you will feel very low for having tried. And he will probably feel very smug. (+2)
  • There is NO WAY he's as hot as you are. Lose the zero, sister! (+2)
  • Nope. You know the saying. "If you love something, set it free. If it comes back to you it is yours to keep. If not, it was never your's." (+3)
  • rebounding can lead to awful results (+4)
  • you don't need him (+4)
  • he might take advantage of your neediness (+4)
  • embarrassment (+5)
  • fate may have torn you apart (+5)
  • there may be a reason why you're not with him (+6)
  • may reject you (+7)
  • left you for a reason (+7)
  • you may meet someone else better (+7)
  • puts off the inevitable (+9)

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